guā刮mù目xiāng相dài待
To look at someone with new eyes; to treat someone with renewed respect or a completely different perspective due to their significant progress or change.
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Ancient
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During the Three Kingdoms period, Lu Meng, a general of Eastern Wu who excelled in martial arts but lacked literary skills, began to study diligently after being advised by Sun Quan.
After some time, Lu Su, the governor, came to inspect Lu Meng's defensive post. To Lu Su's great surprise, Lu Meng not only explained the defenses against Shu in a clear and organized manner but also presented a detailed written proposal.
Lu Meng then famously remarked, "When scholars have been apart for three days, one must look at them with new eyes."