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During the Spring and Autumn Period, the philosopher Laozi proposed an ideal state of affairs. He believed that neighboring states could see each other and hear the sounds of each other's roosters and dogs. Yet, he envisioned a society where people would eat their own rich food, wear their own clothes, and live according to their own customs, so content and self-sufficient that they would grow old and die without ever having contact or interaction with people from the other state.
Later, Sima Qian, the great historian, expressed his view that this idea of 'growing old and dying without interacting' was impractical and unworkable in reality.

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Open the tool →老死不相往来 (lǎo sǐ bù xiāng wǎng lái) is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to live out one's days without having any contact or communication with each other; to be completely estranged and never interact again”.
老死不相往来 is pronounced lǎo sǐ bù xiāng wǎng lái in Mandarin Chinese.
Literally, 老死不相往来 means “Grow old and die without having any contact with each other”. It is used to mean “to live out one's days without having any contact or communication with each other; to be completely estranged and never interact again”.
老死不相往来 comes from a classical Chinese story dating back to ancient China. The full story is on this page.
指彼此不联系,不交流情况。