
Recently, Mr. Song has been feeling very anxious due to his daughter's situation. His daughter, Xiao Song, a tenth-grade student at Zhashui Middle School in Shaanxi, was ordered by the school to suspend classes and return home for self-reflection for one month because she had a mobile phone in the dormitory. Mr. Song feels helpless; he believes that while his child should be punished for her mistake, a direct one-month suspension is too high a price for a high school student in a critical learning phase.

Xiao Song is 15 years old and usually lives on campus. Since Mr. Song and his wife are divorced and he works out of town, providing his daughter with a phone was mainly to facilitate weekend contact and to transfer money for her meals. According to Xiao Song, she knew the school forbade phones and had tried to hand it over to teachers for safekeeping multiple times, but after being refused, she had to sneak it into the dormitory hidden in a notebook, only to be discovered by the dormitory supervisor.
Since being asked to return home in early January, Mr. Song has contacted the homeroom teacher and school leaders multiple times to plead for his daughter's early return to class, but all requests were rejected. The school maintained a firm stance, stating that the full month must be served according to regulations. What surprised parents even more was that, according to students, as many as 40 students across all grades from tenth to twelfth had been suspended for bringing phones.

Mr. Song admitted that the child's recent academic state was improving, and the performance ranking had also risen significantly. A one-month suspension at this time is highly likely to make previous efforts go down the drain. He suggested that the school could adopt methods such as criticism and education, increasing physical labor, or writing a guarantee letter for punishment, instead of taking such severe measures that might directly affect the child's future.
In response to the questioning, the local education bureau initially stated that schools establish rules and regulations to facilitate unified management. Although the punishment seemed harsh, it possessed a degree of rationality, and parents should have understood the relevant regulations upon enrollment. However, after media intervention and in-depth interviews, a turning point quickly emerged.
On the evening of the media report, Xiao Song and her parents received a notice from the school to resume classes. The school decided to allow all students suspended for violations to return early to participate in exam preparation, but required each to submit a piece of deep reflection material. Although the incident has temporarily quieted down, it has sparked widespread social discussion regarding school management boundaries and how to scientifically discipline students.