A heart-wrenching separation from loved ones, often implying a permanent or very long-term parting, feeling as painful as being separated by death.
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Ancient
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During the Southern Dynasties, Emperor Wu of Liang accepted the surrender of Hou Jing, a general from the Western Wei. However, Hou Jing later rebelled, capturing the capital city and intending to starve Emperor Wu and the city's inhabitants to death.
Xu Ling, a scholar, had his father trapped inside the besieged city. Deeply worried, Xu Ling wrote a letter to Yang Zunyan, a high-ranking official (仆射), pleading for his father's release.
In his letter, Xu Ling vividly depicted the profound grief and pain of facing a separation as agonizing and final as death (生离死别) from his dear father, movingly portraying the desperate hope to avert such a tragic fate.