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During the Spring and Autumn period, Duke Gong Bo of Wei and his wife shared a deeply loving relationship. They had sworn an oath that their love would remain unchanged until death.
Later, after Gong Bo passed away, his parents wanted his wife, Gong Jiang, to remarry.
Gong Jiang firmly refused and composed a poem titled 'Bai Zhou' (Cypress Boat) to express their 'fei shi fei xi' (unwavering) love, thus convincing her parents to abandon the idea.

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Open the tool →匪石匪席 (fěi shí fěi xí) is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to have an unwavering resolve”.
匪石匪席 is pronounced fěi shí fěi xí in Mandarin Chinese.
Literally, 匪石匪席 means “not a stone, not a mat”. It is used to mean “to have an unwavering resolve”.
匪石匪席 comes from a classical Chinese story dating back to ancient China. The full story is on this page.
不是石,不是席。意为石可转而心不可转,席可卷而心不可卷。比喻意志坚定,永不变心。