qǐ乞hái骸gǔ骨
To request retirement, especially for an official seeking to return to their hometown in old age or ill health, often implying a desire to pass away peacefully in one's native land.
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Ancient
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During the Western Han Dynasty, Shu Guang, the Grand Tutor to the Crown Prince, was advanced in years.
He petitioned the emperor to retire alongside his nephew, hoping that their aging bodies could eventually be laid to rest in their hometown. Their request was granted.
When they departed the capital, high officials and dignitaries gathered outside the city gates to bid them farewell. They were deeply respected by the people as 'Worthy Grand Tutors' for their wisdom in knowing when to be content, avoiding potential disgrace, and withdrawing from public life after successfully completing their duties.