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During the Spring and Autumn period, Zeng Can was severely beaten by his father for mistakenly damaging some melon seedlings. He fell unconscious from the beating but pretended to be very happy when he woke up.
Upon hearing this, Confucius was greatly displeased, even going so far as to refuse to acknowledge Zeng Can as his disciple.
Confucius explained that the ancient sage Shun, when disciplined by his father, always practiced '小受大走' (endured minor punishment but fled from severe beatings), thereby preserving his filial piety without allowing his father to commit the grave wrong of inflicting excessive harm.
Zeng Can, by enduring such a severe beating, put his father in a precarious position of potential injustice.

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Open the tool →小受大走 (xiǎo shòu dà zǒu) is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to endure minor punishment from one's parents but strategically flee from severe beating, as a filial duty to protect parents from committing a serious offense or inflicting grievous harm”.
小受大走 is pronounced xiǎo shòu dà zǒu in Mandarin Chinese.
Literally, 小受大走 means “Small bear, big flee”. It is used to mean “to endure minor punishment from one's parents but strategically flee from severe beating, as a filial duty to protect parents from committing a serious offense or inflicting grievous harm”.
小受大走 comes from a classical Chinese story dating back to ancient China. The full story is on this page.
轻打就忍受,重打就逃跑。儒家认为这是孝子受父母责罚时应抱的态度。