To flirt with or pursue romantic relationships with many people; to be promiscuous or engage in extramarital affairs.
Era:
Early Modern
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Story:
During the time when Jia Lian's daughter fell ill, he lived apart from Wang Xifeng and found himself in a state of profound loneliness.
He suddenly recalled the cook Duo Guan's wife, a woman known for her striking beauty and coquettish nature, who was prone to flirting and engaging in affairs (拈花惹草). Driven by his desire, he dispatched a young servant to convey his intentions to her. Coincidentally, she had also secretly admired Jia Lian.
Soon after, Jia Lian went to meet her. Their encounter was instantly passionate, like 'dry wood meeting fierce fire,' and from that moment on, they began a clandestine affair.