进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 — “To promote someone as if placing them on one's lap, and dismiss someone as if pushing them into an abyss”
进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to show extreme favoritism towards some while being excessively harsh towards others, judging people based purely on personal likes and dislikes rather than objective principles; to elevate those one favors as if placing them on one's lap and cast down those one dislikes as if pushing them into an abyss”. Literally, “To promote someone as if placing them on one's lap, and dismiss someone as if pushing them into an abyss”.
进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 Pronunciation and Pinyin
进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 Character Breakdown
| Character | Pinyin | Strokes | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
| jìn | 7 | advance, enter, eat, or receive | |
| rén | 2 | human being, person | |
| ruò | 9 | if, like, or you | |
| jiāng | 10 | about to happen, to lead | |
| jiā | 5 | to add, increase, or apply | |
| zhū | 10 | all, various, many | |
| xī | 15 | the knee joint | |
| ， | ， | — | |
| tuì | 10 | retreat, withdraw, decline | |
| rén | 2 | human being, person | |
| ruò | 9 | if, like, or you | |
| jiāng | 10 | about to happen, to lead | |
| zhuì | 7 | fall, drop, or sink | |
| zhū | 10 | all, various, many | |
| yuān | 11 | deep profound abyss |
Example Sentence with 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊
Origin and Story of 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊
During the Jin Dynasty, Xiang Xiong, who was a registrar in Henei, had a deep-seated resentment towards Liu Huai, the prefect of the commandery.
Later, when Xiang Xiong became a Huangmen Lang (a court official) and Liu Huai became a Shizhong (another court official), they treated each other like strangers upon meeting.
Emperor Wu of Jin ordered them to reconcile, but Xiang Xiong refused, stating that their bond was irrevocably broken and communication was impossible.
He then remarked, "Ancient gentlemen treated people with propriety whether promoting or dismissing them. However, today's gentlemen elevate those they favor as if placing them on their laps, and cast down those they dislike as if pushing them into an abyss."
Idioms Related to 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊
Synonyms of 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊
More idioms starting with 进
- jìn进fǔ俯tuì退fǔ俯inconsistent movement or posture
- jìn进lì利chú除hài害promote good, eliminate harm
- jìn进kě可yǐ以gōng攻，，jù据kě可yǐ以shǒu守strategic flexibility in offense and defense
- jìn进kě可yǐ以gōng攻，，tuì退kě可yǐ以shǒu守flexible in offense and defense
- jìn进kě可tì替bù不offer good strategies to eliminate flawed practices
- jìn进kě可tì替fǒu否Advance good to replace bad
- jìn进shàn善chéng惩jiān奸promote good, punish evil
- jìn进shàn善chéng惩è恶promote good and punish evil
- jìn进shàn善tuì退è恶promote good, dismiss evil
- jìn进shàn善chù黜è恶promote good, dismiss evil
- jìn进rǎng壤guǎng广dì地expand territory
- jìn进cùn寸tuì退chǐ尺gain little, lose much
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Open the tool →Questions about 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊
What does 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 mean?
进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 (jìn rén ruò jiāng jiā zhū xī ， tuì rén ruò jiāng zhuì zhū yuān) is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to show extreme favoritism towards some while being excessively harsh towards others, judging people based purely on personal likes and dislikes rather than objective principles; to elevate those one favors as if placing them on one's lap and cast down those one dislikes as if pushing them into an abyss”.
How do you pronounce 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊?
进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 is pronounced jìn rén ruò jiāng jiā zhū xī ， tuì rén ruò jiāng zhuì zhū yuān in Mandarin Chinese.
What does 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 literally mean?
Literally, 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 means “to promote someone as if placing them on one's lap, and dismiss someone as if pushing them into an abyss”. It is used to mean “to show extreme favoritism towards some while being excessively harsh towards others, judging people based purely on personal likes and dislikes rather than objective principles; to elevate those one favors as if placing them on one's lap and cast down those one dislikes as if pushing them into an abyss”.
Where does 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 come from?
进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊 comes from a classical Chinese story dating back to ancient China. The full story is on this page.
What is the Chinese definition of 进人若将加诸膝，退人若将坠诸渊?
加诸膝：放在膝盖上；坠诸渊：推进深渊。指不讲原则，感情用事，对别人的爱憎态度，全凭自己的好恶来决定