gǒu狗yǎo咬lǚ吕dòng洞bīn宾
To mistake a kind person for an enemy; to repay kindness with hostility, showing a lack of discernment or gratitude.
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Early Modern
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Lady Wang instructed Jia Huan to copy the Diamond Sutra. Jia Huan then settled on Lady Wang's kang (a heated brick bed), had candles lit, and began to copy with an air of affected importance.
The maid Cai Xia advised him to focus on copying diligently. However, Jia Huan adamantly accused Cai Xia of favoring Bao Yu and treating him poorly.
Cai Xia, in response, scolded him, saying he was like 'a dog biting Lü Dongbin' —failing to recognize good intentions.
Just at that moment, Bao Yu and Wang Xifeng entered, leaving Jia Huan no choice but to secretly brood in annoyance.