dǐng顶mén门zhuàng壮hù户
To uphold and bring honor to one's family; to be the pillar of the household and ensure its prosperity.
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Early Modern
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Jia Mu and Li Wan were chatting with their child. Jia Baoyu came in carrying a cage with a cicada.
Jia Mu scolded him for not studying, while at the same time praising Jia Lan for his promising future, saying he would certainly uphold and bring honor to the family in place of Jia Zhu.
Li Wan started shedding tears at the thought of Jia Zhu. Seeing Baoyu, she said that children should be praised often, as this encouragement would help them make progress.