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During the late Han Dynasty, two scholars, Guan Ning and Hua Xin, were very close friends who studied together since childhood.
However, their personalities were vastly different. Guan Ning was diligent in his studies and had no desire for wealth or fame, while Hua Xin was rather frivolous and admired glory and riches.
As time went on, Guan Ning grew to dislike Hua Xin's superficiality and pursuit of worldly possessions.
One day, when they were studying, a high-ranking official's carriage passed by, and Hua Xin immediately stopped reading to watch it, showing great admiration. Guan Ning, however, remained focused on his book.
Disgusted by Hua Xin's covetousness, Guan Ning took a knife and cut the mat they shared into two halves, separating their sitting places. From that day forward, they broke off their friendship, signifying their complete dissociation.

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Open the tool →割席分坐 (gē xí fēn zuò) is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to sever ties or break off friendly relations with someone due to irreconcilable differences, often indicating a complete separation or discontinuation of association”.
割席分坐 is pronounced gē xí fēn zuò in Mandarin Chinese.
Literally, 割席分坐 means “Cut the mat and sit separately”. It is used to mean “to sever ties or break off friendly relations with someone due to irreconcilable differences, often indicating a complete separation or discontinuation of association”.
割席分坐 comes from a classical Chinese story dating back to ancient China. The full story is on this page.
席:坐席。把席割断,分开坐。比喻朋友绝交。