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In the State of Qi, there was a beautiful young woman. Two young men proposed to her simultaneously.
The young man from the East was very wealthy but had an unattractive appearance, while the young man from the West was a handsome but poor scholar.
The girl's parents were in a dilemma and asked the girl to make her own decision.
She said she was willing to marry both: she would eat at the East family during the day and sleep at the West family at night, thus attending to both food and accommodation.

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Open the tool →食宿相兼 (shí sù xiāng jiān) is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to want to have the best of both worlds, especially when the two desired outcomes are contradictory or mutually exclusive; to attempt to achieve two conflicting goals simultaneously”.
食宿相兼 is pronounced shí sù xiāng jiān in Mandarin Chinese.
Literally, 食宿相兼 means “to combine eating and lodging; to have both food and accommodation concurrently”. It is used to mean “to want to have the best of both worlds, especially when the two desired outcomes are contradictory or mutually exclusive; to attempt to achieve two conflicting goals simultaneously”.
食宿相兼 comes from a classical Chinese story dating back to ancient China. The full story is on this page.
比喻幻想同时实现两个互相矛盾的目标。