To decline a marriage proposal or alliance from someone of significantly higher social status or power, expressing that one's own position is too humble to be a suitable match.
面对富家千金的追求，小王思虑再三，觉得高攀不起，自嘲一句“齐大非偶”，最终婉拒了对方的好意。
Faced with the pursuit of a wealthy heiress, Xiao Wang deliberated carefully. Feeling he couldn't aspire to such a match, he jokingly remarked, "Qi is too great to be a match," and politely declined her kind offer.
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During the Spring and Autumn period, the ruler of the powerful state of Qi wished to marry his daughter, Wen Jiang, to Prince Hu of the comparatively weaker state of Zheng.
Prince Hu, apprehensive of a possible ruse, courteously refused the proposal. Others were puzzled by his decision and asked for his reasons.
He explained that everyone has a match appropriate for them. Qi is exceedingly powerful, and we are not on par in terms of family or status. How could such a marriage ever be suitable?
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