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During the Spring and Autumn period, the ruler of the powerful state of Qi wanted to marry his daughter, Wen Jiang, to Prince Hu of the state of Zheng. Zheng was a relatively weaker state, and fearing a trick, Prince Hu politely declined the proposal.
Others were surprised and asked him why. He replied, "Everyone has a suitable partner. Qi is so powerful; we are not a match in terms of status. How could we possibly marry?"

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Open the tool →齐大非耦 (qí dà fēi ǒu) is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “Unsuitable as a partner due to significant disparity in status, power, or wealth; implying one is not worthy of such a prestigious match”.
齐大非耦 is pronounced qí dà fēi ǒu in Mandarin Chinese.
Literally, 齐大非耦 means “Qi is powerful, thus not a suitable match”. It is used to mean “Unsuitable as a partner due to significant disparity in status, power, or wealth; implying one is not worthy of such a prestigious match”.
齐大非耦 comes from a classical Chinese story dating back to ancient China. The full story is on this page.
旧时凡因不是门当户对而辞婚的,常用此话表示不敢高攀的意思。