gǎo槁mù木sǐ死huī灰
To be utterly devoid of passion or desire; in a state of extreme apathy and indifference, like withered wood and dead ashes.
Era:
Ancient
Frequency:
Story:
In the Grand View Garden, Li Wan was the only widow. She was originally Jia Zhu's wife, and after his death, she lived with her five-year-old son, Jia Lan.
Hailing from a renowned official family in Jinling, she was educated and sensible. After losing her husband in her youth, despite living amidst luxury, she became utterly apathetic, like withered wood and dead ashes. She paid no heed to anything external, dedicating herself only to serving her elders and raising her son, proving herself a virtuous wife and loving mother.