蒹葭倚玉树 — “To be like a common reed leaning against a jade tree”

蒹葭倚玉树 is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to be like a common reed leaning against a jade tree”. Used to describe a striking contrast between an unsightly person and a beautiful or distinguished one. It can also be used as a humble expression, implying one is benefiting from associating with a more brilliant or superior person. Literally, “Common reed leaning against a jade tree”.

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蒹葭倚玉树 Pronunciation and Pinyin

蒹葭倚玉树 Character Breakdown

Stroke Order

Character	Pinyin	Strokes	Meaning
蒹	jiān	13	reeds without ears
葭	jiā	12	young reeds or ancient flute
倚	yǐ	10	lean against or rely on
玉	yù	5	jade, precious, beautiful
树	shù	9	tree or plant

Example Sentence with 蒹葭倚玉树

在这次慈善晚宴上，小王得以与几位德高望重的前辈坐在一起，他谦虚地说道：“我这真是蒹葭倚玉树，能向各位学习，受益匪浅。”

At this charity gala, Xiao Wang had the opportunity to sit with several highly respected elders. He humbly remarked, “I am truly like a common reed leaning against a jade tree, benefiting greatly from learning from you all.”

Origin and Story of 蒹葭倚玉树

During the Three Kingdoms period, Xiahou Xuan, a court attendant, was exceptionally handsome and was known as a “jade man.” He was very proud and held himself in high regard.

Mao Zeng, a commandant and imperial son-in-law, was unsightly and unpleasant to look at. Leveraging the fact that his sister was the Empress, he often sought opportunities to get close to Xiahou Xuan.

When they sat together, people described it as “a common reed leaning against a jade tree,” highlighting the stark contrast.

Xiahou Xuan was extremely displeased by this comparison, and Emperor Ming of Wei subsequently demoted him for unrelated reasons, though this anecdote often illustrates Xiahou Xuan's arrogance and the awkwardness of the pairing.