







杀妻求将 is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to ruthlessly sacrifice everything, even one's closest kin, for personal ambition, power, or status; to be utterly unscrupulous in pursuit of one's goals”. Literally, “Kill wife to seek generalship”.
During the Warring States period, Wu Qi, a native of Wey, went to the State of Lu to study military strategy under Zeng Zi. Later, he became an official responsible for training the Lu army.
After becoming an official, Wu Qi married a beautiful woman from the State of Qi. When the powerful State of Qi attacked Lu, the ruler of Lu wanted to appoint Wu Qi as a general. However, he was concerned about Wu Qi's loyalty, as his wife was from Qi.
Upon hearing this, Wu Qi, determined to prove his allegiance and gain the coveted position, killed his wife and then went to see the ruler. Convinced of his loyalty and ruthlessness, the ruler appointed him as a general.

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Open the tool →杀妻求将 (shā qī qiú jiàng) is a Chinese idiom (chengyu) meaning “to ruthlessly sacrifice everything, even one's closest kin, for personal ambition, power, or status; to be utterly unscrupulous in pursuit of one's goals”.
杀妻求将 is pronounced shā qī qiú jiàng in Mandarin Chinese.
Literally, 杀妻求将 means “Kill wife to seek generalship”. It is used to mean “to ruthlessly sacrifice everything, even one's closest kin, for personal ambition, power, or status; to be utterly unscrupulous in pursuit of one's goals”.
杀妻求将 comes from a classical Chinese story dating back to ancient China. The full story is on this page.
春秋时,吴起杀掉妻子以求得到鲁国的信任和重用。比喻为了追求名利而不惜做灭绝人性的事。