yī一lái来èr二qù去
Gradually; in the course of frequent contact or interaction; little by little; over time.
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Early Modern
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Story:
Grandma Jia was chatting with Li Wan and her son.
Jia Baoyu came in, carrying a cricket cage.
Grandma Jia criticized him for not studying, while at the same time praising Jia Lan for being promising, saying he would surely become the family's pillar in the future.
Li Wan started to shed tears, remembering Jia Zhu.
Seeing Baoyu there, she advised that children should be praised often, because "yi lai er qu" (over time, through such interactions), children will make progress.