zé择lín邻ér而jū居
To choose one's neighbors, implying the importance of a good living environment, particularly for raising children and their education.
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Ancient
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During the Warring States period, young Mencius was very intelligent. He often imitated funeral procession musicians playing horns.
Mencius's mother worried he would neglect his studies, so she moved their home to the city. However, their new house was next to a slaughterhouse, and Mencius quickly learned to butcher pigs and sheep.
Distressed, Mencius's mother decided to move again, this time near a school. From then on, Mencius began to study Confucius's philosophy and eventually became a great thinker.