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Never forget friends made in humble circumstances, and never abandon a wife with whom one has shared hardships.
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Ancient
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During the early Eastern Han Dynasty, Emperor Liu Xiu appointed Song Hong as 'Grandee Counselor'.
Liu Xiu's elder sister, who was widowed, developed an affection for Song Hong.
Liu Xiu wanted to marry his sister to Song Hong and asked him for his thoughts on the saying 'Nobles easily change friends, and the wealthy easily change wives.'
Song Hong replied, 'Never forget friends made in humble circumstances, and never abandon a wife with whom one has shared hardships.'
Hearing this, Liu Xiu had no choice but to give up the idea.