bù不guān关tòng痛yǎng痒
To be of no personal concern or consequence; to be irrelevant to one's own interests, feelings, or well-being.
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Early Modern
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Jia Baoyu, upon hearing that Aunt Xue and Baochai had arrived in the capital and were staying at their residence, immediately went to visit them.
He took out his precious 'Psychic Jade' for Baochai to see, and Baochai, in turn, showed him her 'Golden Lock'.
Seeing their joyful interaction, Lin Daiyu felt a pang of jealousy. She deliberately moved aside, leaving only a few old maids whose presence was irrelevant to the intimate moment to attend.