An extremely selfish and ruthless attitude, meaning one would rather betray or wrong everyone else than be betrayed or wronged by anyone.
他行事一向都是宁教我负天下人，休教天下人负我，所以没什么真正的朋友。
He always acts with the principle of 'better to wrong others than be wronged by them,' so he has no true friends.
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